With each day of my
existence here on earth, I have come to the realization that life is here in
the moment and you must enjoy every minute with all the love, peace, and
happiness you can put before you. We
have absolutely no control of the future.
When you awake each morning, be happy to see the sun shine once
again. And, if it is not sunshine in
front of you, enjoy the raindrops, snowflakes, or cloudy sky that you are
fortunate to enjoy. These are all forms
of nature and they can be beautiful in your eyes if you CHOOSE it to be. What is most important is that you have been
blessed with another day of life ~ another day to spread and pass forward as
much love, joy and peace to those who cross your path throughout your day.
As for yesterday, you must
come to the realization that it is over.
There is nothing you can do to change that which has already
happened. Worrying only sets you
back. Be thankful the day existed and
use your experiences of the past to help you move forward and enjoy the day at
hand even more. Wipe the slate clean and
learn to appreciate that which is put before you. Live in the present.
There has been no time
better than the present for me to be thankful for the life I have been
given. Since the day my husband was
diagnosed with liver cancer, I have been able to look to each day as a new day
to have the opportunity to breathe and enjoy the life to which we have been
granted. It is very easy to be
overwhelmed by a serious illness. But,
since the beginning, my husband and I have been determined to take each day
that is given to us and make the very best of it. We cannot wallow in the “what ifs”. There is no time. We must make the most of each day.
My husband’s favorite word
is “COM fort a ble”. He gives me the giggles
and makes me smile by how he expresses and pronunciates this word and how he
truly enjoys the comforts of life. Slow
and easy and RELAXING….that’s his motto for life. And, believe me, when you are hit with the
big C and all that comes with it, it is the best way to look at life. Take each day as it comes instead of overwhelming
yourself with what could be or what could have been. Accept what life has put before you and move
forward one day at a time.
We have had many doctors
compliment us on our attitude throughout my husband’s journey. They attribute our positivity and success to
our “one day at a time” mindset. Instead
of my husband’s disease worsening as time progresses and we near the time for a
liver transplant, he continues to feel better and reaps the benefits of continual
better test results. His labs get better
and better as time goes on. We had a
doctor commend us today on our attitudes and devotion to getting better. He said that we are part of the
minority. He has seen too many patients
become overwhelmed, but he has witnessed how positive we remain and how we keep
up with all appointments and in essence take one day at a time. He is so pleased with us and has told us in
the past that he is always excited to see us because we are always full of good
news.
Along the journey, we have
had doors close only to allow the opening of many more new doors and exciting
opportunities to unfold before us.
Living better for less has become my passion. I have always loved writing and saving
money. I have worked from home most of
my life, but I have usually had to answer to clients. Now, I have the opportunity to take my passions
and apply them to my everyday life. I
have chosen the life of minimalism and work towards that goal every moment in
my life. I now have the time to write
about what I love most. We are able to
live life as if it is one vacation. We
are able to do all the things we enjoy and we are transforming our lives into all
the things that we enjoy most. There is
no better life!!
We anxiously await the
arrival of my husband’s new liver. As
each day passes by, we prepare for the best life ever. Once my husband receives his “new” liver, we
have plans to live “one day at a time” and to enjoy every minute of every
day.
As mentioned earlier, my
plans are to write and I will write about that which I know best ~ living
better for less! I am in the process of
writing my first book on minimalism. I
plan on approaching this lifestyle in a manner that has not been presented before. Meanwhile, I will continue to blog and
hopefully inspire those who are tired of catering to the corporate world. We are not put on this earth for long, so we
should enjoy it as much as we can. I
hope I can invoke thoughts on ways to enjoy ONE DAY AT A TIME and to LIVE BETTER FOR LESS!!